This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama. This month our participants have reported on weeklong trials to make their lives a little greener. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.
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Sometimes, it seems overwhelming to see how "well" others do at living sustainably and parenting naturally. . . but when I think about it, I know that every small thing that I do makes a difference, and every baby step that I take leads me to discover a new natural family living experiment to consider.
I feel wonderful that we're introducing our children to reusable linens and green philosophies - and they'll carry these convictions and conventions with them as they grow, but there's one thing that I really never thought I would try.
I'd heard about and read about Family Cloth wipes in the bathroom instead of toilet paper, and the thought just grossed me out. So, for my Natural Family Living Experiment, I faced my fear and introduced Family Cloth wipes to our restrooms. . . . and guess what? I actually ended up liking it! Totally not as gross or off-putting as I thought it would be!
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My Natural Family Living Experiment- Family Cloth Wipes
The Wipes:
I sewed together scraps of fabric that I had from diaper making and the Joanns remnants bin. My final pattern ended up being flannel on one side with organic bamboo fleece (OBF) on the other, sewn together right sides together, overlocked with a zig zag stitch, pressed, and turned and top-stitched (which required more pressing). They are about 7 1/4 inches long and 5 inches wide, and even after shrinking in the wash, they are a perfect size for an adult palm.
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| My Homemade Family Cloth Wipes, Photo Credit: Author |
Usage:
I decided to tread carefully at first and introduce the cloth wipes only for "#1s" . . . I figured if I made that my goal, I could feel good about achieving it, and then maybe move past it, if I felt comfortable enough.
The Transition:
I thought that it would feel weird to use cloth wipes, or that Abbey might accidentally throw one in the potty and flush it down, but neither of those things turned out to be true. It honestly feels so luxurious to wipe with cloth! The flannel is warm, fleece on my palm is oh so soft, and no annoying toilet paper left behind - ever!
Abbey didn't really even skip a beat when I told her to use the cloth wipes. I placed them on the back of the toilet, told her we were going to use them to wipe instead of toilet paper, and "okay mommy!" away she went. I've been washing them in my cloth diaper loads every two days.
The Result:
Not only were Abbey and I comfortable using the cloth wipes for "#1s", but Abbey started using them for "#2s" as well. She loves that she can wipe herself easily, and that for the most part, she doesn't have to be checked for stray streaks or paper bits left behind, because the cloth wipes do a great job of cleaning up, and don't "rip and stick" in her little bum.
This is fantastic for my little Miss Independent.
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So, experiment successful! I'll be sewing up more and more Family Cloth wipes in the near future, and maybe (just maybe) I'll start using the cloth wipes for my "#2s" (TMI, I know!) and see how that goes.
I was really surprised with how much toilet paper I have to use when I wipe even after peeing in order to get the same coverage and thickness of a cloth wipe. That's tons of money and paper waste, when I can just use cloth instead!
Many of my fellow NPN Volunteers have assured me that they use Family Cloth for pee, but haven't transitioned for poos at all. So, apparently it's not uncommon (or a cop-out) to only go "half-way" cloth in the restroom. Whew! What a relief!
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Do you use them in your home?
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Visit Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama to find out how you can participate in the next Carnival of Natural Parenting!Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:
- Make your own moisturizer! — Megan at boho mama whips up a winter skin-friendly moisturizer.
- Cold Water Only — Brittany at The Pistachio Project talks about how you do not need hot water to wash laundry.
- Family Cloth... Really?? — After lots of forethought and consideration, Momma Jorje finally decides to take the plunge with family cloth.
- Reduce, Reuse, Recycle : 5-5-5 Things A Day — Luschka from Diary of a First Child writes about decluttering her home in an attempt to create a gentler living space. She takes on a new project where she sets a goal of reducing, reusing and recycling every day.
- Pros and cons of family cloth — Lauren at Hobo Mama would love to continue replacing paper products with family cloth … if she could only get over how damp she feels.
- Craftily Parenting — Kellie at Our Mindful Life finds that crafting makes her a better parent.
- Changes — Laura at Pug in the Kitchen couldn't choose just one area to experiment with, so she wrote a long post about all the fun changes initiated in her life!
- Life without Internet: Not all it's Cracked up to Be — Adrienne at Mommying My Way tries to go a week without the Internet, only to realize a healthy dose of Internet usage really helps keep this stay-at-home mom connected.
- My Progression to Raw Milk — Kerry at City Kids Homeschooling shares her natural parenting progression all the way to trying raw milk.
- mama's new little friend. — Sarah at Bitty Bird tries a menstrual cup to "green her period," and is pleasantly surprised when she falls in love with the product!
- Before you throw it out, try homemade laundry soap! — Jennifer at Practical OH Mommy shows visual proof that homemade laundry soap is cheaper, easier, and works better than the store-bought chemicals!
- Oil, Oil, No Toil, No Trouble — K from Very Simple Secret talks about her foray into the oil-cleansing method.
- I Need a Hobby — Amanda at Let's Take the Metro couldn't decide which experiment to run, so she did them all.
- 7 days of macrobiotics for a balanced family — The Stones make a [successful] attempt to release the "holiday junking" with 7 days of macrobiotic meals to balance their bodies and souls. Elisabeth at Manic Mrs. Stone includes an explanation of macrobiotics.
- Chemical Free Beauty Challenge — Jenn at Monkey Butt Junction turned to natural alternatives for her daily beauty and cleaning routine, with great results.
- Greening my Armpits!? My Green Resolution — Shannon at The Artful Mama talks about how she decided to give up her traditional antiperspirant and make the switch over to crystal deodorants and definitely isn't looking back!
- Going Raw (for a while) — Jenny at Chronicles of a Nursing Mom shares her family's experience with raw food.
- Do we get to eat gluten today? — Sheila at A Gift Universe has been trying to figure out if her son does better with or without gluten in his diet … but it's really hard to tell for sure.
- Hippies Can Smell and Look Fabulous Too! — Arpita of Up, Down And Natural details her experience of going shampoo-free and overhauling her cosmetics to find the balance between feeling beautifully fabulous and honoring her inner hippie.
- Our cupboards are full...but there's nothing to eat — Lucy at Dreaming Aloud takes on the challenge of chomping through the contents of her storecupboard rather than going shopping — but there's something that she just can't bring herself to do …
- Elimination Experiment 3.0 — MudpieMama recounts the messy adventures of her baby daughter trying to be diaper free.
- Family Cloth Trial — Amyables at Toddler in Tow talks about making and using family cloth wipes in the bathroom for the first time.
- Taking a Hiatus — Amy at Peace 4 Parents shares how her experience of much less internet interaction affected her family and how it will change her approach in the future.
- Trying Out the Menstrual Cup — Lindsey at an unschooling adventure ditches the tampons and gives menstrual cups a try.
- Managing Food Waste in Our Home — Tired of the holiday waste, Robbie at Going Green Mama takes a weeklong focus on reducing food waste in her home, and learns some lessons that can take her through the new year.
- Going Offline, Cloth Tissues, and Simplicity — Jennifer at Hybrid Rasta Mama muses over her time away from blogging and social networking. In addition, she shares her newfound love of cloth tissues and simplicity.
- The Oil Cleansing Method — Erica at ChildOrganics explores an easy, organic and natural way to tackle skin care.
- Experiments in Natural Family Living - Natural Toys! — Lani at Boobie Time enjoys the silence of natural toys and being more present with her son.
- Discovering a New City and Organic Foods — Amy at A Secure Base describes her family's switch to and search for organic foods for one week.
- My Experiment in Homemade Bread — Crunchy Con Mommy tried — and loved — baking her own homemade bread.
- Menu Planning: Stop the Excuses — Gaby at Tmuffin stopped the excuses and started planning her weekly meals, drastically cutting her grocery budget and stress level and improving the quality of foods she fed her family.
- My First Menstrual Cup — Mandy at Living Peacefully with Children was pleasantly surprised with her first experience using a menstrual cup.
- My Natural Beauty Regime — Christine at African Babies Don’t Cry shares the results of banishing cleanser and soaps from her bathroom, as well as a couple of natural homemade recipes that have worked well on her skin.
- Unplugging and Creating a Rhythm: Our Experiment in Natural Family Living — Dionna at Code Name: Mama focused less on gadgets and spent more time with her family to create a healthy rhythm for the new year.
- Experiments in Natural Family Living: 5 First Steps Toward Preparing for a Natural Birth — Charise at I Thought I Knew Mama discusses how she tackled the pressing matter of how to begin preparing for a natural birth.
- All you need is...vinegar! — Kristen at My Semi-Crunchy Life learns that one household product can replace all the cleaners in her cabinet.
- Nope Nada Ixnay Negative Pass Decline — Zoie at TouchstoneZ finds out what shakes loose if she says, "YES!!" to anything anyone asks of her over the space of 10 days.
- Reducing our exposure to toxins found in plastics — Syenna at Gently Parenting Twins throws out the melamine and BPA plastics which have been hanging around the kitchen for too long.
- Duh! — Kat at Loving {Almost} Every Moment shares how she began the process of helping her 2-year-old son stop physically acting out.
- Experiments in Natural Parenting: Starting, Stopping, and Gaining Perspective — Melissa at Vibrant Wanderings explains how pregnancy brain interfered with her attempts to complete an experiment, but how she gained some interesting perspective as she started and stopped several.
- From Experiment to Lifestyle — Abbie at Farmer's Daughter shares her experience avoiding processed foods for a month, and deciding to make it a permanent lifestyle change.
- From Disposable Paper to Reusable Cloth – AGAIN! — Terri at Child of the Nature Isle stops flushing trees down the toilet and switches to the softest ever butt-wiping material: cloth.
- Extra! Extra! Water Heater Turned Down, Mom Doesn't Notice! — Thomasin at Propson Palingenesis finds an energy-saving experiment that's so easy she didn't even realize it was happening.
- Worm Tea — CatholicMommy isn't sure how successful her worm bin will be, but she's having fun anyway.
- Miles to Go ... — Rachael at The Variegated Life learns that when it comes to sleep debt, she's in real deep.
- My Month With Water Kefir — Paige at Baby Dust Diaries experiments with a new fermented probiotic drink homemade in her own kitchen.
- OMG Mom is Home... All Day Everyday: A Week-Long Experiment in Connecting — What a difference a week makes! Ana at Pandamoly is afforded a week off from work and takes the chance to reconnect and reattach with her 16-month-old son through an experiment in simply being there.
- Creating Healthy Family Recipes — Deb Chitwood at Living Montessori Now shares her experiment with healthy, gluten-free recipes and a chocolate muffin recipe that was created during the experiment.
- Adventures in Alternative Haircare: No 'Poo — This guest post at Natural Parents Network from Amy at Anktangle chronicles a months-long journey into the world of no 'poo.
- My Experiment in Natural Family Living: Natural Family Planning — Birth control options are seriously limited for those of us trying to live a little closer to the earth, so Mama Psalmist experiments with natural family planning.

There are a lot of us new family-clothers out there! I figured I should go whole hog and try it for #2, too. Sometimes it grossed me out, but it helped if I rinsed with my bidet a lot first. What? You don't have a bidet? You're missing out. ;)
ReplyDeleteI like your version of wipes! I need to make some more.
I used mine post-partum (before this I had not used them when I was menstruating), and I have no stains! Anyway, I love me some family cloth. TP just cannot compare.
ReplyDeleteLauren, I have a diaper sprayer. . . but I think if I used that like a bidet, I would make one hell of a mess ;)
ReplyDeleteDionna, that's amazing - no stains! All the talk about how pampering your family cloth was at the NPN get-together at your house was what really set me in motion with trying it!
Interesting. I'd never even considered it. I might give this some thought... seems a great way to save money and create less waste!
ReplyDeleteYay to another successful cloth experimenter. I too loved the luxury feeling. I used mine for #2 after washing myself with water first. I'd love a bidet but a jar of water works well in the meantime!
ReplyDeleteI would NOT try this at home. Our laundry mountain with 3 kids is already the size of Everest, and takes weeks to get through, so family cloth would be oh so yucky here! Hats off to you for trying, and really delighted your experience was so positive.
ReplyDeleteIt does seem much easier while already washing diapers. Fun to read about your adventure and kudos for trying it when you initially felt uncomfortable. Facing fears can be so powerful.
ReplyDeleteWhen we were at a low financial point a few years ago I made the switch to save money and just caught the used cloths in a mesh bag so they could be washed daily or every other day. We really like it, too. Sometimes we use TP and sometimes cloth. Come to think of it I am sure at least one child prefers the cloth because she often uses them and just throws them in the diaper pail. LOL It's nice to have a choice these days. :)
Im definitely going to give this a shot in the near future, but only for #1's too :)
ReplyDeleteI'm open to a lot of reusable products (or will at least consider them), but I have to draw the line at reusable wipes in the bathroom. Not even to keep around for "we're out of toilet paper" emergencies. :-)
ReplyDeletelol Cassandra, that's what I thought, too! "I draw the line at wiping MY butt with cloth!" was my response to all my NP friends saying that Family Cloth was da bomb. . . until I went out on a limb and tried it!
ReplyDeleteNow, I have to say that because we cloth diaper, a little smear of adult poo or pee is NOTHING compared to spraying out diapers (which really isn't all that gross anyway) or the ammonia smell of a diaper pail as you're putting the diapers in the wash. So having been a cloth diapering mama, I was already desensitized to the "ick" factor.
I can see how this seems icky from your perspective ;) <3 love you!